It's safe here.
You are not defective or broken
You may be tired and for good reason, you may have felt...
Annoyed.
-there are so many other things in life that are priority -- he should be more mature than to keep bringing this up
-why can't he be more obsessed with the Bible and godliness or at least being a good father
-your husband is way too obsessed with it
Improper.
-physical intimacy is somewhat dirty or ungodly (or at least the way he seems to pursue it)
Pushed.
-pushed by your husband to pursue physical intimacy
-not good enough or at least unable to satisfy him
-like your libido wasn't strong enough or you can't enjoy sex like other women and maybe you've felt an underlying sense of brokenness
The ways you have felt matter.
And your husband may be going about this the wrong way.
He may not know how to do it better. He's hurting.
My hope is that you are more at peace and even hopeful after coming to this place here.
That is our prayer.
We want to help you change your marriage, even if only one of you does the work.
We want to help.
The founder of Delight Your Marriage, Belah Rose, shares the heart behind our work.
The Delight Your Marriage Podcast has been ranked of the top 1% podcasts out there.
Our programs successfully transform marriages devastated by affairs, decades-old, and living like roommates, even marriage counselors have witnessed transformation in their own marriages.
Schedule a call to see Delight Your Marriage's novel approach to your relationship can help you.
As a wife, we believe you want to feel safe...
emotionally, (of course physically) and spiritually
You know he cares about your feelings; about your family's devotion to Jesus and that you can trust his character, kindness, gentleness, and all the other fruits of the Spirit
to feel known...
That God designed you -- you are a daughter of the King
God's masterpiece
Not just your body
But your intricacies, your likes/dislikes, passions, opinions, experiences, strengths/weaknesses
And he WANTS to seek those out and discover who he really has as his wife
to feel wholeheartedly cherished...
That romance!
Surprises that are unique to what you would like
He clearly thought of you and got something / said something / did something that was on his own volition to make you light up
I would love for you to discover more
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Interested in other wives' stories?
Sex caused tension and they had poor communication -- now she has desire!
- Ali
"We both grew up in single parent homes and we didn't want that for our kids."
- Ebony
"...Now I long for his touch"
- Dana
More amazing stories...
What a man says about the men's course...
"It's about how to be a good husband and really learn to love your wife."
- James
Why Your Husband should take the men's course...
"There's Hope! I'm living it!"
- Ann
"I now better understand my wife."
"This is life-changing!"
- JP